Holidays - stress or fun?

My charges broke up today for half term, there was a chorus from the parents and then the teacher to me "have a lovely break" only for me there is no break! My work has now doubled! There will be a different stress, how to entertain, the squabbles that lie ahead, trying to keep everyone happy all day.

But I am sure nannies all over will know this feeling and reality!!

I can't lie, I have seven glorious mornings where there is no school run and the chaos that goes with it! We can have breakfast in a civilised way, and just relax at home until........

And that is the question, do we go out, do we have friends round, where can we go, is it going to cost?

Unfortunately for some families going to places where you have today to pay to enter, is not possible (I appreciate how fortunate I am in not always thinking before I arrange things with others, to meet at a fee paying establishment) some parents don't like their children to watch TV, for other their friends are away.

Always find a time to discuss with your employer ideas for half term, and any outings their friends may have, you may be pleasantly surprised in what they are willing for you to do and may allow a cost day out.  The parents too may like and value some time with their children.

Try to plan some days, but also leave some - it's always nice to do something spontaneous!

So what are the options that keep everyone happy?

- Go to your local park, it's free and enables the children to have a good run around, and hopefully
also lose some energy!
- indoor play area
- look and collect vouchers, many places have a buy one get one free deal going.
- if around arrange play dates with friends
- visit a museum - if you are near the London area you can get in free!
- Art and craft activities
- Baking

And lastly, have a day at home just relaxing, maybe watching a movie! There is nothing wrong in having a PJ day! In fact i think it is very important for children to have time at home, to unwind and be, as well as them getting on and playing with their toys, and appreciating that it is not usual to be out every day and entertained!!

Most importantly, try and enjoy this time with your charges, all too soon term time will be around again!

I'm now off to enjoy half term!

Victoria